Monday, July 23, 2012

The Problem With Porn *EXPLICIT* Reader Discretion is Advised*

As I've said before I'm a recovering porn addict, it's a sin I struggle with and I'm currently struggling with it now and hopefully this article will help me deal with the struggle for now. So, I am a recovering porn addict and I say recovering because one doesn't STOP using porn cold turkey but rather one struggles against the urge to use it, as I am doing now. I am blessed that my addiction hasn't gotten me in ANY legal trouble nor was I put in a compromising position because of it. None of my family knows and the severity of my addiction isn't as sever as some of the other cases I've read. Thankfully this is due to my EXTREMELY limited scope of what I deemed acceptable porn. I was strictly into girl/girl porn, NO MEN INVOLVED WHATSOEVER! And because of that I didn't seek out more disturbing things as others have. But nonetheless I am a recovering porn addict.

So why is porn bad? Well you could argue that I'm only saying it's bad because I'm a Christian. Which is true for the most part but I myself do believe it's bad as well, and there are many others who do without a religious belief. But we're not talking about them, we're talking about me. Why do I think porn is bad. Simple, it's degrading. Based on what? Well allow me to answer that with a question, would you tell people your mother was a porn star? Even as a joke, would you? That your mother did a video with a few guys and they all came on her face? Would you want your mother to tell you that when she came home from work? That one man used her anus while another used her vagina at the same time? Or perhaps maybe your sister? Would you mind at all if your friends were exchanging pictures of your sister while she was engaged in sex with some guy and they all laughed and cheered as the man thrusts himself into her? Maybe your daughter? Would you want people making comments about how badly they want your daughter to deep throat their penis? Or how they enjoy watching her choke on a big fat cock?

If none of those things bother you then this article will fall on deaf ears and I suggest you go somewhere else, but if it does bother you than congratulations, you're half way home. Because Porn stars are Mothers, Sisters, and Daughters, and if we wouldn't want our own mothers, sisters and daughters in such a business then why is it okay for them? Because they want? Some people WANT to do cocaine, doesn't mean it's good for them to do so. Because it makes them happy? There are other things that can make a person happy that doesn't involve having sex. The truth of the matter is the only reason we think it's okay is because we don't see a person on the screen. And you're lying to yourself if you say you do. You don't. You see Sunny Leone, Aria Giovanni, Tera Patrick, but you don't see THEM! You see an image they create to make money. You see an advertisement for sex.

What you see is some chick who has sex for your pleasure. If such wasn't the case then look for a picture or a video of them fully clothed and not engaged in anything sexual or turn off the porn video before the kissing and sex begins. If you can think of this person is a non-sexual way then I'll digress from my point. The problem is, you can't. Why? Because that's what they want you to think of them as. They don't want you to think for a second that they could possibly be someone's mother or daughter or sister, they want you to believe that they are horny 24/7 and always ready to have sex with the next guy with the largest cock without ANY precedent. They want you to believe that you could possibly have sex with them yourself. They want you to believe that they are ready and willing to swallow your semen or wear it on their face with a smile per your request. They want you to believe that you can do what you want with them and to them and not only will they go along with it, but they'll enjoy it and BEG you for more.

Am I lying? With all the BDSM, Gang Bangs, Big Cocks, Big Tits, MILF porn whatever you're looking for you can pretty much find it. Am I lying? Is that NOT the reality they've created? And this whole time they're building this reality is NEVER dawns on you that your sister, cousin, mother, niece could be next. Because we're told that they're NOT REAL WOMEN! That's the lie we're told, that porn stars aren't real women, they're porn stars. That's a lie, they ARE real women, they're PAID NOT to act like real women. And if you think it can't happen, all you have to do is watch any Girls Gone Wild video, a few drinks and a few dollars can make a lot of things happen unfortunately, and your sister, cousin, niece and yes, even your mother may not have as strong of a character as you thought.

Laurence Fishburn would have never in a million years assumed his daughter would do hardcore pornography and yet...there she is. We've brought into the lie that porn is not prostitution. Because that's essentially what it is. Your body is what you're being paid for, once it fails you cease being a asset to the company. And by fail, I'm talking about your breasts start sagging, you gain a few pounds, you gotta scar somewhere, a weird birthmark, a tattoo and so many other superficial things I've read in the comments about porn stars. "Insert name Here tits look horrible!", "That bitch is so skinny!", "Her ass looks saggy.", "Her nose is all fucked up" and so on. What's worse is that these women value these things, rather than looking into the inner beauty that God has given them they turn to their paycheck and their "adoring" fans who'd turn on them the SECOND they decide to leave porn, or get a tattoo or something.

They're paid to have sex with strangers for the pleasure of strangers. People they don't want to meet unless it's in the confines of a safe and secure area, people who they KNOW would stop at nothing to have sex with them if they were given the time of day. People who expect them to act like horny, cum-hungry sirens ready for their next roll in the hay...and that's not them at all. Prove it? Gather up as much money as you possibly can, fly down the AVN Expo, find your favorite porn star and make them an offer, if they agree to sleep with you I'll digress from my point. But I doubt they will.

Porn is bad because it devalues humanity and degrades it down to a primitive level of emotionless, faceless sex. It turns women into nothing more than mere sex objects, THINGS to be looked at, THINGS that ONLY exist for our pleasure and enjoyment, THINGS with no wills of their own, to be desired and discarded once the luster wears off and then it's on to the next one. And if you don't want your mother, sister, daughter, cousin, niece to be a THING, you shouldn't endorse anyone else mother, sister, daughter, cousin or niece becoming a THING either.

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